There are some people who do not have in their dictionaries…one-man-one-woman. They are not ok or cannot be ok with just a single partner. Let’s look at some of the reasons.
For some people it’s all about money and nothing else. They have multiple sexual partners just so they can have multiple ‘accounts’ or sources of income. Unfortunately, some of these people do not think of themselves as prostitutes.
There are some who have been hurt seriously in the past and they vowed make people go through what they went through or worse. They therefore do not put their heart in the relationship because of the motive they came in with.
3. PLAN A, B, C, D….
Some people are seriously afraid of broken heart. They have heard different stories about that and do not want to experience that in their life. Some have experienced it but have vowed not to go through it again so they have multiple partners and they don’t care so much who leaves.. at least the rest or the other partner will be there in case one leaves.
4. NO is UNAVAILABLE
Some people are able to speak about 10 different languages but unfortunately they don’t know how to say NO in any of the languages. Anybody who proposes to them, they will accept and anybody who wants sex they will give. They can even accept two proposals or propose to two different people same day.
5. BOOST SELF ESTEEM
Some people deliberately propose and enter into relationships just to try and see if they will be able to get the person to say YES or accept them. Guys who do this go in for ladies who are still virgins, high class ladies or hard to get ladies or new lady in town. For the ladies who do this, go in for people who are well respected in society or people with high status…Like a lecturer, minister, pastor, CEO etc
There are people whose sexual drive or desire is so high or insatiable such that no one person can satisfy them. So to avoid the partner complaining that they love sex too much, they go in for side chicks to satisfy their sexual desires.
Some people find it thrilling to have multiple sexual partners. The act of playing the partners like chess is fun for the person. There is nothing like love in it.
8. AVOID BOREDOM
For these people they are a bit stable in the relationship when with the partner but once they move away from one geographical area to another, they must get another partner. They have a partner in school, one at home, one in hometown, one at grandma’s place etc. What it means is that anyway they move to, they have a partner.
Some ladies are in search of ORGASM. They have never experienced it before but have heard things, read and watch things. The quest to experience orgasm make them increase their sample size. While a guy like this will look for a partner who he can practice certain sex positions with because the real partner wouldn’t do. Eg anal sex or oral sex.
10. CHEAP AND AVAILABLE
For some people, due to the nature of their work or position the temptation to have sex or keep changing partners is high. Some teachers, doctors, police, long distance drivers, CEOs etc don’t go out begging for sexual partners in most cases but people rather come to them to trade a favour with sex. Because they have a lot to choose from they are very choosy and some even do audition in their head before choosing the final contestant.
There are instances where some people in authority use their office or power to demand sexual relationships from those under them.
People come into relationships with different reasons or purposes and if you don’t know you may think it’s because of love. Take your time and study the person. Remember also that changing sexual partners will put you at risk of STIs. Your self-esteem is never boosted if you do such a thing. People have REASONS for the things they do. Don’t judge and don’t sit behind gossiping